When Dreams Prevail,

Wednesday, March 03, 2010

love is being cruel,love is being selfish?

lol funny topic to start with isnt it
to love someone u have to be cruel at times
and to love someone u have to be selfish as well?
this is something most ppl will think about
in order for us to really help someone we like
we have to first learn to be cruel to them

no i dont mean beating the buns out of them
wat i meant is,if they really didnmt wanna do something
but they are force to do so
one would have to refrain them from doing unless it is something that cant be helped
giving up something u like or trying to pick up something u know that u dont like
is a way of sacrificing for the love of someone
but nevertheless,never ever over do it
know ones limit,when u over do it,
it's more like having no self dignity upon urself
and u are merely nothing but a puppet

and why do we say love is being selfish?
we give the best to the ones we love
followed by 2nd graded stuff to the ones we like
follow by the rest to those we adore/friends

balancing between loving someone and friends around is important
when u have nothing in the world but them alone
the world crumbles when the bond between both starts to break down
but being fake to urself is also a silly way of self denial
trying to make friend only to show that u have friends
are in no diff similiar to wat has mention above

be true to urself and be true to everyone else
and eventually everyone will be truthful to u
a trust is not brought from gifts
it's gain from time and trust

once bitten , twice shy
i have learn to love myself more
cos only if i love myself will i be able to love others around me
i still remember my motto
to make a smiling world
it's a hard motto to keep up
but i will never forget that promise i made
i will just keep trying in everywhere i can

and hope that i can gain more experience from everyone i meet
alias time is short
to everyone who was wishing for a time machine
we are a time machine ourselves
we continue to make a better future
but we cant change the past
so keep the past as a lesson to learn and change the future

may everyone be bless with the peace and serenity of a peaceful nite
Oyasumi nasai minna san
gambarimasu!

10:26 PM