Tuesday, November 07, 2006

hmmmm true love is..?

haha oh my goodness,i havent been blogging for quite a while XD.well was playing game these days.but anyway nothing much happen at home also haha.so didnt blog much.but i came a cross a friend's blog talking about true love and relationship,which lights up my lightbulb to this topic.

True love: A blinding effect or a heart desire?

yea life will never be the same when it comes to finding someone you love.love has a blinding effect on many ppl.that includs me of cos.afterall we are all animals with feelings...we dreamt of a day we will find our prince/princess that we love and cherish.that's wat "true love" symbolizes.but well the world works in a very queer way.does true love really exist?or are we covered by a veil of feelings that fear the much worst effect of getting cheated.i believe true love does exist in some expect of life.

hmmm my definition of true love.well "love with your heart,care with your thoughts and cherish like your soul" but it is not as easy and simple as it is.mayn who has gone in and out of relationship would know.this will much be suitting to their liking "love me with your heart,but dont bother or step into my space"
most ppl like having personal spaces to breathe.i did my research on this and found out that many relationships falls out either having not enough or been just too much of each other.as a professor has publish in one of his books

"there a 2 type of ppl living in the world,passive and negatative personality,being one that needs love in a higher amount and one liking freedom and carefree-ness."



when both ends crash each other things will break done.first thing in mind are you loving your love one right?how do u identify wat you are feeling about your relationship.here's a few things i found out in order of how seriuos your relationship has rate from the most loving to the so-so to wat's-the-point-of-loving rate

rate your love chart
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1)sticking to each other like bees to honey
meeting as much as possible(firest few months)
2)lesser dates mostly wanting to do what each personally wanna do the most
mostly talk on phone(mid part of relationship)
3)hanging out friends more often
wanting to find others to talk to
sms more then phone calls(late mid of relationship)
4)thinking back to the days where the sweets time is
mostly busy doing stuff preferring but individual(late part of relationship)

final outcome:
either both are committed to caring and being considerate about each one's life in the late part of the relationship.if not things are bound to turn out sour as it may seems.still the out come are purely base on each other and individual to shape.

so blessful life is all about how we shape our hearts for each other.flirting never has any blessings.i personally hates it.online relationship is too painful in a way.where there is not really something the heart can show.how and who our loved one and the fated lover will only be up to fate and God as well as us to shape.bless us all with the heart of and angel and love of God for all to have a blessing in love and relationship...

9:35 AM

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